Relationship advice

Relationships

Center - Do not make someone the center of your life. If you center your life on someone...

1. You’re no longer hard to get which is a bad look. 
2. It’s irritating. Imagine having someone build their entire emotional life around you. Yuck!
3. You will come off as desperate and needy. Avoid that.

Bad signs

1. Often assessing your relationship a lot or asking "Where do we stand?"
2. When you reach out and they don't reach back.
3. You only meet on their terms.

Instead remember...

1. Don't chase people. 
2. Work hard and be yourself. The right people will find their way into your life. 
3. Before you go looking for the right person, be the right person.

And finally...

1. Beware of someone who is only focused on their own interests, at the exclusion of your's.
2. Meet people where they are, versus where you think they should be.
3. Don't try to change someone. A commitment held together only by threats and restrictions isn't one at all. Accept someone as-is or leave.
4. Never trust anyone that lies to you.

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