Friday, July 25, 2014

Relationship advice

  1. The best partners are the ones who know and like themselves – well enough not to need the validation of others.
    1. If you don’t love yourself, you’ll always be chasing people who don’t love you, either.
  2. Couples work through everything by ensuring that they both get what they need. Beware of someone who is only focused on their own interests, at the exclusion of your's.
  3. Cheaters think everyone cheats. Liars think everyone lies.
    1. Never trust anyone that lies to you.
    2. 99% of the time, the person accusing you of doing something is doing it to you right now.
  4. How you resolve your first blowup argument tells you all you need to know about whether they are potential soul-mates or life-wreckers.
    1. When you're wrong, say you're wrong. When you're right, don't say anything.
    2. Not arguing or fighting in a relationship represents a lack of interest. People who care about one another tend to argue sometimes.
  5. Don't chase people. Work hard and be yourself. The right people will find their way into your life.
  6. Don't try to change someone. A commitment held together only by threats and restrictions isn't one at all. Accept someone as-is or leave.
  7. Don't cheat in a relationship. If you are not happy, just break up.

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